Losing Someone

Thumper · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 6:25 pm Post subject:

Steph you must have been so scared, and you should cry from time to time it's good for you

Hope your sister is O'K now

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Shelley xx

chibi_steph18 · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 6:36 pm Post subject:

Well, I think she is over her suicidal tendencies, but...she is so hard to live with. She is so lost...Idk how else to explain it. Like, she doesn't seem to want to do anything with her life except drink and have sex and talk bad about people and stuff like that. She doesn't even want to go to college anymore (which, ok, she doesn't have to, but what else is she going to do?) She always goes on and on about how she doesn't love Mom or our stepdad, how all her old friends hate her now and how they are all stupid...how she wishes she lived with our dad instead. Someone told me that Rachael (my sis) said she was happy that I was moving to college. Happy! I mean...jeez, I never do anything to her...Gah, she makes me so mad sometimes..

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Sometimes I don't think birds are really talking to each other. They are just making fun of police sirens.
-Stephanie

Serenity · Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:38 am Post subject:

That must have been a dreadful thing for you to have to go through Steph, you must have felt so helpless

Wondering why your sister couldn't speak to anyone too, when she felt so desperate. It's good that you had someone to speakk to though and even better that she didn't succeed. Is she ok now? Or do you still fear for her?
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chibi_steph18 · Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 3:30 pm Post subject:

Sometimes I do, like when she gets upset or really angry and holes up in her room for a long time..but otherwise, i think she is ok for now
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Sometimes I don't think birds are really talking to each other. They are just making fun of police sirens.
-Stephanie

Serenity · Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 3:39 pm Post subject:

Thats great to hear Steph

Mostly things like this are a cry for help, and with support people overcome their depressive thoughts

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Amber · Member User Online: Joined: 28 Sep 2007 Posts: 381

Steph-- just by reading your post, i sense your sis is very lonely even though she has people round her. actually i'm going to Pm you .

toni38 · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 8:58 pm Post subject:

it is true time is a great healer,i lost my son aged 16mths in 1987,he is in my thoughts every single day,if it wasnt for the support of my husband n family i dont know how i would have got through.i went on to have 2 more children.and i now have 3 grandchildren so my life is pretty hectic :lol:my son is still much a big part of my life.he is talked about often by my grandchildren who didnt know him but have heard us talk about him.
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xx toni xx

Serenity · Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 5:59 am Post subject:

I can remember the devastation Toni that everyone felt, but yours must have been a battle to come through....... to remember him and still talk about him must give you comfort.....thank goodness our memories of lost loved ones , lasts forever, and no one can take that away from us

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